Friday, October 19, 2007

Deeeee

I had my share of crushes, heartaches, heart breaks and occasional happy moments. Looking back I always thought of my prince charming to be this hunk tall dark and handsome, highly successful, intelligent, popular at the same time religious (hehehe) (the list is long). Someone on the lines of Mr Darcy (Imagine Colin Firth here not some Henderson dude thank you!)...a brown version of...You get the picture! I mean it was always unrealistic it was fantasy and even in reality I choose the most unattainable guy to fall in love with (if you are a regular you know who!)

But being married to D is so refreshing....so real...so natural. He is human, he is down to earth, he is simple with no airs, he isn't romantic in the sweep-you-off-your-feet-kind of way but he tries (like going for walks in the evening and buying me flowers :) (oh oh did I tell you he took me to see the Taj Mahal) . It got me thinking at the end of the day, what I think I wanted and what I really wanted are two different things...if you ask me now...I would take integrity and a warm heart over anything any day.

BTW, Happy Dashera folks, hope you had a nice navratri!

9 comments:

aria said...

Well .. what can I add there .. hmm the thing is .. what matters is .. being happy and that is quite explicit here :)

Happy Durga Puja to you too :)

jeenu said...

Hey Girl
seems like marriage suits you really well :D and D does sound like a prince charming

cheers
jeenu

parikrama said...

Seems like somebody has grown up :)

Happy Dashera to you & 'your' D.

vi said...

Aria,
:) I guess you are right!
Jeenu,
Long time Hon, how have you been? Hows your prof hehe...thanks :D

Parikarma,
LOL...yes...well kind of :)

Mónica said...

Happy Dashera, Vi.

Ain't you a lucky girl? It sounds great to me! :)

Btw, Vi, do you by any chance support the Toronto Raptors? I always forget to ask you... Hee, hee...

vi said...

Monica,
Toronto Raptors...lets just say I have heard of them...no not a fan...come to think of it I am no one's fan (ok may be mukhesh's)

Mónica said...

OK, Vi. I just asked because two of my Spanish boys are playing there. :)

Priyamvada_K said...

Vi,
Have you listened to the song 'unanswered prayers' by Garth Brooks? Your blog reminded me of that.

Wishing you both much happiness. Integrity and genuineness is what matters.

Priya.

vi said...

Priya,
thanks for the wishes...I had not heard that song but i read the lyrics on your reference and :)